By: Michael Webb
Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t have the magic and romance that it once had? Feel like you're stuck in a rut and always doing the same things?
You’re not alone. After dating someone for a long time, it's easy to slip into a stable and comfortable routine. However, you often lose the spark that made your relationship so special in the first place. Not to worry, here are three simple, fun and creative ways to reignite that magic:
1. Give them a unique gift
Name a Star after your partner. A number of astronomical agencies allow individuals to name stars and you receive formal documentation identifying the star that you have named. Or how about this: Give your partner a magic gift box, and every month place a new small gift in the box for your beloved to discover.
2. Say "I love you" in a unique way
Take a book that your partner is reading and, using a pencil, underline letters in a section of the book she has yet to read to spell out a secret message of "I love you" or an entire love letter. Doing it just like this. Or for something really unique: You can buy special plants that grow and after 14 days display a message of your choice on the leaf. Cool or what!
3. Start going on dates again
One thing that separates couples with 'out of this world' relationships, is they never stop doing new, fun and exciting things with their partner. In other words, they never stop dating and neither should you.
Spend the day doing fun things: go to the carnival, the beach, have a water fight, stare at the clouds on a grassy hill, go on a picnic, walk in the rain without raincoats and umbrellas, dress up in funny costumes and hit the town. Or how about this: Pick your partner up for a date and blindfold her before driving to a special destination. Try to make the destination something really unexpected like a table set up at the top of a cliff or a dinner on a boat or old-fashioned ship. It needs to be something that will have an impact when she removes the blindfold.
Believe me when I say that NOTHING can rekindle the love, passion and excitement in your relationship more than going on fun and creative dates together.
About the Author: Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 300 Creative Dates, a book jam-packed with ways to rekindle your relationship with creative and romantic outings, including including ideas for every day dates, long distance relationships, birthdays, anniversaries and more. To learn more, visit the creative date ideas site
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
3 Ways To Re-Spark The Magic Back Into Your Relationship
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This is excellent advice. Although I focus rimarily on health issues, I see this as helping the metal health side of someone.
I agree this is definitely good advice, but I've found something that should work just as well.
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Yes, yes and yes.
My relationship of fourteen years was in a rut and I started two of the three pieces of advice and still do.
Firstly, we arranged for a baby sitter once a week so we could have some "Us" time for a night. Movies, coffee, dinner, picnic's, walks, parties. It didn't matter what we did as long as we did together. Once a month or so we get our parents to sit for the weekend and we do something we love or something new.
Secondly, I started sending her flowers again. I use that kuutee.com site where you decide how much you want to spend and how often you want them sent. I placed one order hat is sent monthly and I go onto the site once a month to change the message so it is relevant to what we are doing at the time. The flowers get sent to her work so all the ladies tell her how lucky she and she loves the attention.
But here is the oil. What I have relaised is that before we made these changes we had detached emotionally from eachother adn we didn't even know it had happend.
Take it from me, someone who has done this - it works!
P.S. where do you get those trees from?
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