Be a Great Flirt - Be Phenomenal and Make Her Melt

By: Megan Zoile

In this article we are going to take a quick peek at how you can quickly and easily become a great flirt in a few short, simple steps...even if you don't feel completely confident right now.

The key to being a great flirt - plain and simple is this: You have to BELIEVE you are.

Confidence, as I mentioned above, is key. If you are unsure of yourself, just like the old saying goes, you got to fake it, until you make it! What does this mean? PRETEND you feel good about yourself, that your game is top notch, and that the women you approach are going to laugh at your jokes, melt at your touch and not want you to go away once you arrive. Sound a bit new age and too touchy feely to work? Think again!

I dated a pretty popular comedian for two years when I got out of college - a funny guy who had a good following in the area that we lived and a bit beyond. I must have seen him do 200 live shows if I went to 1. The material....was pretty much always the same. The audience reaction to the jokes, though? Varied WILDLY night to night. Why? Very simple. CONFIDENCE! On the nights he felt "on" - he delivered. On the nights he questioned his ability, or felt the other entertainers on the bill were better, or thought he just looked bad, etc...his performance simply suffered. By not believing in himself, no one else did either. But on the nights that he felt put together and on his game? He was truly an elite level entertainer who deserved all of the attention (ESPECIALLY from women, I might add) that he got.

Want to be a great flirt? Believe you are. Squash ANY self doubt that you feel right now, and just go out and take what it is in life that you want. Be funny. Be creative. And be confident - and the women will come in droves, I promise! You don't need to be 6 foot three and the starting quarterback to get the most BEAUTIFUL women in the room...I know many a hot girl who couldn't care LESS about the star athlete or guy in the band - they just want a guy who teases them. makes them feel good about themselves and can exchange some funny repartee on a dime. That is the definition of a flirtatious guy who owns the room. And YOU can be that if you practice!

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